Hey all, My wife didn't say anything until we came back from vacation so that I wouldn't worry and didn't want to ruin a family gathering (my side). She had visited for her annual check-up before the vacation. Her doctor tried calling her during our vacation at home and we didn't receive it until we came back...It was bad news, that I wasn't expecting and hit me like a sledge hammer. It is cancerous and can spread, but we caught it at the earliest stage...I have a lot of stuff on my plate on top of this...I will be in and out of MNsubaru checking PMs and at work checking emails and feel free to call me on my cell if you need to contact me...Currently my phone is being sent to me from CA. (I left it there while on vacation). I dunno if I can make it to the La Crosse trip, depending on how my wife feels, I will try. As for my project on my 04 WRX I will still try to complete this, but funds may have to be transfered depending on cost of the hospital exam, surgery, medicine, etc. Please pray for my wife...
Wow, sorry to hear that. I can't imagine what it's like to get news like that. I really pray everything will be ok.
any suggestions and tips...questions to ask the specialist would be greatful...*getting teary eyed* reading this...
Sorry to hear and let me know if there is anything I can do. I'll pray for your wife and your family. God bless
It's good that you caught it early. You need to stay hopeful and positive. And there is no shame in putting off your WRX project at all. In fact, after your wife pulls through this, it'll be a great reward. Stay strong buddy. And remember to stay positive.
Hey Ray, Cam and I are there for you guys, if anything is needed, let me know. Sorry to hear about that.
Sorry to hear about this Ray. Just ask as many questions as you can...and make sure you're the one prepared to ask them. I have a family friend that's been through this and we found that having others attend doctor appointments as well made things a lot easier on everyone involved. Just be there for support...whatever she needs...but I'm sure you're preparing yourself for that. We'll keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Ray you have always been going out of your way for the community, let us know if we are able to help you with anything. My wife and I have met your wife, she is a wonderful person, cheerful and happy. I am sure things will work itself out.
Keep looking on the bright side and hope for the best. My grandmother had brest cancer and she fought it and won, I wear a livestrong braclet to remind me that nothing is impossible or to big to overcome.
hey man really sorry to hear about this. My dad had melanoma cancer back in 2001 and they cought it at a later stage. they told our family that he had a 25% chance of living and he still pulled threw. just try and keep your head up and hope for the best. tell your wife to be strong because thats the best defense you can have.
Thanks guys for all your support...God knows I need it at this point...we were planning on having a kid and this hits back x10000000+ times...not only we can't have a baby, also her health is in danger as well...
She just setup an appointment to see a specialist @ U of M fairview on Monday for a 2nd opinion + still going to the health partners one on the 12th of June.
Sorry to hear about this Ray. Beth and I will keep you and your family in our prayers. If you need anything, anything, let me know. Be postitive, and don't forget to take care of your self too..
Catching early is the best news you could get! Be greatful for that at least! My mother is going thru a bad system of events starting from breast cancer so I do understand in a way of your pain. You didnt say what type, but people who live around big cities have MUCH greater resources and minneapolis is one of the best. Things I would recommend, get thru the shock, both of you, but especialy her need to learn as MUCH as possible. I have learned thru this that it has to be the patient worrying about what is best and not putting all their "faith" into a doctor. You do not need to be a doctor to get the resources to know what is best. get medical books, talk to the doctors and do research before you make decisions. It is a medical fact that doing this improves factors a lot! psycologicaly peparing and keeping active to fight, and knowing you are in control or have part of that control. Odds are something to pretty much ignore, everyone is unique. I stopped everything I was doing when I learned about my mother, I never imagined it would effect me how it did, but getting past it and finding your outlets to get your mind to feel ease is important (car project, juggling, whatever) so keep strong, but let the tears come out! I feel for you. My mother is in Texas or id be trying to recommend more, but feel free to PM me or call me at any time! seriously!
Ray, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife. Be strong and hope for the best. And Chuanpreza is absolutely right. We are very fortunate to have world class facilities and health care practitioners in our area. I can say that I was very relieved when my folks decided to make the 8 hour drive up to Rochester to have my mother's tumor removed last year. So I hope you find some solace in that. -sheen
Stay positive, it's tough to do that, but it helps a lot. I had a similar situation with my gf's sister, she got through it and you guys will too.
update: From what my wife said after she spoke to her Doc. It isn't life threatening, but I still worry for her health. They first said she has ovarian cancer and now they say it is the Uteris, or could be both. It is deadly if nothing is done, but when it is removed there is a 94% rate of survival after 5 yrs. of the operation. Obviously it has to be surgerically removed...Just can't bear any kids (best case senerio) hopefully nothing else gets pops up in her other organs...
My thoughts and Prayers go out to You and your family. Hang in there buddy! My mom went through the same thing and everything turned out just fine just like it will in your case. You helped me so much with my wheels if there is anything I can do for you or your family let me know I would be glad to!
That's good news that its not life threatening. Hysterectomies (if that's what it comes down to) are a fairly common procedure too so that should be a relief. Hang in there and best wishes.
I am sorry to hear about this Ray. I hope all this is handled quickly and safely. It is good that it was caught in the early stages. Best of luck to you and your wife.
sorry to hear man, my grandmother had it... my mom had it, "treated it" but it came back, she JUST got done with a half year of intense radiation therapy, you guys will get through it, make sure to keep a positive outlook on it all.
Ray, keep your body and mind strong, man. The least you can do for your wife is to be there for her. Hang on tight. Things will turn your way. They will. When the going gets tough, take time off and let Peter Rabbit work for you.
Well put... a car is a car... a good wife is hard to find... so focus on her and her health mate... this silly forum will be here regardless... if you need anything dont be shy to ask...
Wow, I feel your pain Ray -- I just went though the whole cancer bit with my Dad over the past 2 years. Keep your chin up. Our (Lindsay + me) prayers will go out to your family.
Wow sorry to hear..... keep strong....... i hope all goes well. you and your family is in my prayers... god bless
Ray, Be strong man. modern technology has come a long way in fighting cancer. if my aunt beat it, I'm sure your wife can. She's going to be fine.
Hey Raymond, sorry about the recent bad news. You and your wife have been added to the prayer chain at my church and my familys church in Iowa...sincere prayers can move mountains. We wish her the best!
Thanks guys for the thoughts and prayers...I'll update later today after we have our visit at the U of M campus (Fairview).
