my girl just told me that after going to a party alone (would have gone but I had to work at 5am)... that she obtained a hickie, and a badly bit lip... from a girl at the party in which she said "no" to.... .... wow ...
I don't like girls. I would have punched her if I was in this situation. Not your gf, i mean .. she should have punched/kicked/slapped. Slapping, there you go. That seems girlish enough.
I understand a perhaps bit lip.... there could be an excuse that rolls with that... but a hickie and a bit lip means there was more. she has been known to makeout with the girls when she gets beyond insainly drunk. but again... not a hickie, not a bit lip. and since I wasn't there... I can't point fingers. but I can't deny this doesn't really point in her favor.
...you, my friend, just earned a "get out of jail free" card!!! If you land on go...collect what is yours!!!
yes I had a girlfriend do that once.. strangely erotic, but even more disturbing... ha ah ah how's a guy compete with the things that he loves and doesn't have.. TITS.. except maybe curly??? ha ha ha
Who actually let's someone else give u a hickey? How old is she? That might just illuminate her maturity level...and give u reason to rethink your level of involvement in the relationship. $.02
What makes you think she is telling you the truth? Everyone is thinking, ooo..another girl. I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but she could be lying to get off the hook. Make you think of her with a girl, when maybe she was actually messing around with a guy. Just trying to make you see the "what if" factor. I've been cheated on and I've been the cheater. I know how cheating works...all lies.
she cheated on you, period. now the question is, who are you going to be mad at girl or guy? (maybe she got taken advantage of) option 1: whos car are you going to louisville- slugify? or maybe get that new turbo you always wanted? (bribes work for girls that have cheated, I know this)
If you are friends with her friends, just a. ask her to invite her lady friend over for a beer b. ask someone at the party if shes lying c. pretend to be butt hurt and tell her that car parts will make you feel better
damn you timm, you already got to my cleverness and I just missed that post. You could also just give me said number of hickie girl and I will do what I can.
so I cant verify the story, and she did look rather "i did a bad bad thing and i realised i just funked up hard" look most of the night. I gave her the speech. the "this is your once in a lifetime forgivness" speech. the "I freaken hate cheaters..." speech also the "if I ever find out the story was anything other then how she told it to me, she might as well just forget who I am... so you should be honest now" speech thats about it for an update.
dude, she cheated on you, girl or guy it doesn't matter. Dump her. Cheaters don't deserve a second chance.
"There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again." - George Bush
I know everyone is like " dump the cheating ***" But the fact is, if your in the same boat, 90% of you would offer some sort of 2nd chance. Her 1 time drama card was played. And since I know her very well I know there was no sex involved. Which makes a 2nd chance possible. Cheating is cheating.... But everyone fks up once or twice. There just will be no reconciling if it happens again. If it does, well thats when I screw her best friend on tape and send her a copy.
and of course send her my way for punishment. jk man, i can honestly say i would've given her a second chance as well. easier said than done when it comes to ending something and trying to move on. hope it works out for you and nothing else occurs.
It really depends on the person, some can tolerate that type of crap, some cannot. It's up to you, on what you want to do. If you would like her to be with you, go right ahead. If you want to donkey punch her, then go for it.
I've been cheated 5 times, I NEVER handed out a second chance card... Good luck. at least donkey punch her, or spider man her.
