Oh, I thought you were sarcasticly telling her that her post is bringing on the leghumpers or something. Yes, I know when to compliment and I give them gladly and willingly every chance I get. I am smrt boyfrind, derr. Also, notable info, we hit our one year mark today. Thank you MNSubaru.
I constantly get burned as the nice guy. This girl that I am interested in right now has me right on the fence. She calls or texts just enough so that I still wonder---and it usually happens right when I am contemplating giving up on pursuing her. If I read correctly---the maker of this forum..you are only 20? You have time man... I am coming up on 26 and all of my friends are either in serious relationships...engaged, or married. I feel like the flat tire of the group.
Bah, I'm 26 as well. My friends who've gotten married already are nuts. People change so much in their 20's. Like this girl I work with. Married at 21 and still in school. Its insanity to me. Don't be in a rush to tie the proverbial knot and end up with a chain around your balls.
this... or go screw her sister or maybe her mum!!! then say can we still be 'Friends' ok maybe not the best advice but I am sure all the guys thought it!!
spoken like a true single man... sorry to say but your chain has 4 wheels and doesnt even give you a nom nom!!!
I tell everyone I meet here at college to not get married until they are 30. "But why, Mr. old guy? I LURVES her/him!!!!111" Because, dip****. People in their mid/late 20's go through HUGE changes. I know I did. Those years (I got married when I was 23) were some of the toughest for our marriage. I thank the Army for keeping Jenn and I pleasantly separate for enough time for us to miss each other and together enough time to like each other. Any more time together or apart would have led to fighting (we're both REALLY stubborn) or loneliness. Seriously, my advice (since the OP *did* ask for it) is to not worry about marriage/serious commitment until age 27 or later. This is not the 1950's. I've seen so many young marriages and that batting average for those still intact after 8-10 years is about .050. But what does Mr. Old College Guy know?
Not necessarily true. M'lady would love to get a nice car. She's prioritizing her motorcycle first, however. I sincerely doubt that marriage would change her mind.
I know it's not true, but it would be for the majority of guys who date girls who have diamonds for best friends.
cough cough.. I feel like I have 2 nice cars, one being sold hopefully very soon, had a nice bike (chose to sell cause I never rode it much), we own a house and are about to build a mansion with a huge workshop... people think that marriage is a drain financially but all statistics show the a strong marriage actually brings more stability financially due to 2 incomes coming together.. but it still comes down to having brains... if you are an immature dumb**** ie him or her, then getting married is the last thign you need to be doing... if you arent happy single then how the hell can you be happy making sacrifices for another yet alone add kids to the equation... sorry Bee this wasnt meant to be at you... the first paragraph was in reply to what you said then a waffled... ha ha seriously if its the right person then all those things people worry about become trivial, and usually those fears are from lack of perspective and reality.... Marriage FTW to those who can handle it!!! (disclaimer.... not all marriages work out and not cause of any reasons I may have stated.. each instance is its' own story... no finger pointing meant.. sometimes things dont work out.. especially if one person decides to give up) yada yada yada....
Marriage doesn't mean no toys. I'm married. I have two kids. My wife is NOT a car girl at all. But she knows that it's my thing. She supports my thing and I support her thing. She also gets the added benefit of having a much lower chance of getting screwed at the dealership since her husband isn't exactly clueless. I get the benefit of never having to worry about our taxes being jacked up or translating Korean stuff. Anyway, marriage and kids does not mean the end of fun. It just means you have to prioritize. We're fortunate enough to be able to prioritize education and house and stuff and still have money left over for cool stuff like fun cars.
I am actually really excited about the idea of getting married. 5 years ago, I wasn't. Things have changed a lot since then.
EHEH You can't say what will and wont work. But you can say what has a good chance of working and what doesn't. If any of you know me or my gf seperately you would think that will never work out. But if you know us together you get why it does. (anyways we both are extremely wierd :-D)
oh i love you...sounds like he might be pickin up the block from snobum so we might be doin it this weekendz.....
